Riding other people … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

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We love to control the scene of life.

Have you ever asked yourself why many times our relationships with other people end up with different conflicts?!
Cause many times one is saying to take it to the left and the other is saying lets take it to the right ... and ironiclly most of the times if you take it to the left or to the right you arrive in the same position.
We are obsessed of controlling the scene.
Not having the control, makes us preatty furiously .... which is funny.
Our silly brains wants control in eveything.... at home, at work, on the street ... everywhere?!
Have you ever asked yourself how can you define this?
Well ... its a theory about an idiot mind.
How?! No! No!
Well ... yes ... yes.
Our idiots minds wants to ride other people just cause we want to prove throw everything we do that we are important persons and we have the control on everything.
Does it worth doing this?!
You need to have a honest conversation with you ... just with you and define how many things you lost in life cause you just had an obsession of controlling even silly things.
You could be a boss ... ask your employe to decide some of the things ... you are a husband ... ask your wife to decide whatever she wants in 80% of the cases instead of letting her decide only on 20% of them.
Will that improve your relationships?!
Well ... time is passing and you had experienced lots of things ... what if you decide one day as the goal to be ... having better relationships and not controlling absolutelly everything.
Truth be told, the obsession of controlling everything, just ruins us ?
Define better what is better.